Party without the Panic

Looks perfect

Our current home renovation is fully underway. But you know I didn’t allow one wall to come down until we partied in the original space. We signed the papers on the house at 10am Friday and put together a random last minute party for that same evening.

Because time was of the essence, I built this on MINTED. Saved it as an image and then just texted the photo to friends and family that I thought would like to see!
Party prep pre demolition
Crafts and Kids. Totally stress free in a home that is set for demolition the next morning.

Listen people, we don’t do all these home renovations just because we like seeing the beautiful outcome. Buying a home in desperate need of attention gives us another perfect reason to entertain. And we are NO ONE if not simple humans seeking any excuse to throw a shindig.

{See our last home renovation pre-party HERE. And that specific Before and After HERE.}

Some of you may ‘gasp’ at the idea of putting together a soirée last minute in a home that is minutes from being demolished. But let me tell you that this setting is EXACTLY the perfect place to host your friends.

Self Image
Self-portraits

Think about it: *Expectations are low. (unless you are a total monster, everyone has grace on the couple hosting a party in a dilapidated home they purchased only hours prior). Which leads me to the next major bonus: NO CLEAN UP! Can I say it again for those in the back? NO CLEAN UP! Don’t really have to clean before guests arrive either (a few cobweb dustings might be appropriate but don’t get too crazy). You certainly DO NOT have to clean up when they leave. Countertops filled with crumbs and muddy floors are the least of your concern when you know a demolition crew is just hours away from coming in to rip up floors and jackhammer thru some brick walls.

And while all this sounds a bit silly, to us it’s seriously fun! We would not enjoy spending time renovating homes if we couldn’t share the updates and progress with friends and family. It’s more exciting to share the home reveal when you’ve been able to share a true ‘before’ experience with others.

Wall of Fame
Wall of Fame. Does is stay or does it go?
Complete Self Portrait
Self-portraits only a mother could love.

We are all so busy this time of year – it’s actually the perfect time to keep your celebrations simple and focused on the fun of being together – unless of course you need some alone time. In that case, may I suggest you be the one that does all the shopping for a party. You leave for a few hours and your family never needs to know how quickly this can be done. #winkwink

I’ll include our shopping list and quick party tips below. For this particular party, it was the perfect weather to have doors open, kids playing outside. And of course we had the luxury of allowing them to color and glue on walls. Not to mention, no parents had to walk around pretending their kids know how to pick up after themselves. Because no one enjoys picking up after themselves so we should really give each other grace on this front as well.

Charcuterie Board
Charcuterie Board (while this granite is being removed from the kitchen, it is being utilized elsewhere. Any guesses?

CHARCUTERIE BOARD (this portion feeds approx 20):

(we like to purchase all items from our local Central Market)

1/2 pound Capricola

1/2 pound of Mustard Seed Salami

1/2 pound Sopreseta

4oz goat cheese

4oz Manchego cheese (add a drizzle of honey sweet thang)

4oz Blue Cheese

Vine of Grapes

2 handfuls of Olives

Handful of Corshons

Praline pecans

Dijon and Mustard Seed mixture

Add in Apple/figs/strawberries/etc.

*The key is a good mixture of savory to sweet along with spicy to mild.

Various Crackers (we {HEATH} make our own using a skinny baguette sliced up. Then toast up the slices and top with olive oil/salt/pepper). We {ME} also buy Water crackers and I’m very visual so anything else that pops out at me that day.

Simple party bites
I love a good ‘come and go’ before dinner party. Lite Bites are so easy to prep!
Drink set up
Drink Station. Waters in the shape of an airplane and the plastic cups stacked high. We are David Tutera’s party nightmare!

Have music playing as guests arrive (we always use our BOSE speaker wherever we go). Let guests know where the drinks are if they are not immediately visible when they walk in. Offer to take any bags and let them know where you will be putting them so they can easily find it when they need to leave. And if kids are involved certainly just put away anything you don’t want juvenile hands touching. Keeps everyone more relaxed!

Looks perfect
Party ended and I didn’t pick up one thing. PERFECTION! (okay…maybe I saved every marker I could find. #budgets)

I wish I would have taken more photos during the party, but isn’t that truly the sign of a good time. So much fun, never thought to find my camera.

As I write this we are hopeful that we are just 6 weeks away from moving into this completely transformed space. In the meantime…feel free to invite me over to your place. I promise to always be a good time. And let’s make a deal that you don’t have to pick up before I arrive!

What is your favorite go-to party food?

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